Today I’m going to talk about what confidence is and what it isn’t. I’m also going to share with you my blooper reel of how often I screw up when making these videos. But more on that later…
When I first wondered how I could be more confident, I took on the advice that people are sharing online as regards what they think confidence is.
As a result I became an arrogant idiot, trying to mask my insecurities and like a robot trying to always come across as perfect. I struggled to find a girlfriend because of that and I struggled to find friends.
I'm sure you see these people who come across like that. It makes me so worked up because it's one big lie in terms of what people are sharing!
Being truly confident is nothing like they are telling you to act, which is hiding your real self and trying to appear perfect instead.
I will share with you in my video today what the REAL secret to confidence is—it actually embraces your imperfections and the mess you feel like you are inside!
And I’ll show you why it’s great to be adaptable but not too adaptable.
I’ve shared so many personal stories with you, Insider—so many different areas of my life where I screwed up when I was younger. Such as when I was failing in school, when I ended up working as a toilet cleaner and so on…
All these vulnerable things I shared with you are probably why you connected with me, aren’t they?
If you want more connections and influence with people, it is vital that you know the true secret to confidence which I’ll share in the video today.
I'm also going to show you this a blooper reel which I published onto this channel some time ago, I just found it again. It is probably embarrassing but I am sharing this with you because behind the scenes I screw up so much.
Everyone screws up so I’m sure you can relate to it.
This is like a small segment of how many screw-ups really happen when I'm filming these videos.
I hope you found value in the video today, my friend. Like and share it if you think it will help someone you know.
Go out there and truly own who you are, Insider. You’re born to serve the world so let's change the world together. Enjoy the blooper reel!